Story of Jay and Kay

About Us
I have always wanted to start a site. I wanted to talk about my life but I contemplated. Then I met Jay. Then I wanted to start a site for us. But I procrastinated. More than two years later, this is what I have now, a humble beginning. Just like any couples, we have been through many good and hard times together and this is one reason what this site is for: to put down our story in writing. So that this blog will witness our existence and hopefully we can flip through the archives one day and laugh at the silly things we did and be touched by Jay's heroic deed. Hi, I am Kay, we are boyfriends and this is the our story.

I'm Kay
Male. Smart and sentimental. 26yo. Enjoys movies (and porn) and reality shows. Sleeper. Uptight. Likes Robbie Williams. Has been to Singapore. Ogles at men. Just wants to be happy. Prefers to wear boxers. Selfless.

I'm Jay
Male. Sexy and studly. 29yo. Loves sushi and everything meat. Swimmer. Forgetful. Likes House music. Travels world over. Ogles at Kay. Want to be rich but not necessary famous. Likes not to wear underwear. Selfish.

jayandkay [at] gmail [dot] com



Jay and Kay @ Genting
Jay and Kay @ FRIM
Jay and Kay @ Langkawi
Jay and Kay @ Pangkor
Happy New Year 2005
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Blogs: Kay's Selection

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AGuySite Blog
Casual in Istanbul
Ohlala Paris

Life Journey
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Alan Bennett Ilagan
Ash Angelo
A Leaf From The Book Of My Life
Bedtime Stories
Braving KL
Brat Boy School
But Enough About You
Castor's Diary
Confetti In The Wind
Down The Rabbit Hole
Evolution: Jay to Gay
Finding and Lo(o)sing
Guy Dads
Jacky's Chronicles
Joel's Mode
Kai's World
Medication a la Laynie
Me Talk Pretty Everyday
Musings Of A Virgin
My Pen Is Blue
My Private Point of View
My Stream of Consciousness
Ongline Podcast
Osman Sany
Pep Up With Pepe
Perpetual Rush
Queer Rant
Quote & Unkoute
September Shares...
Shades of Gray
The Thing About Me Is...
The Story of Jake & Troy
What Does The World Look Like?
Ziggy's Lounge

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A Tarnished Halo
Fantasies Of A Virgin
Gayya Kuyusu
Greek Gay Lolita
L'Homme Est Un Concept
Love Gay Sex
Naked Tokyo
Nuba Blog
Photosnaps of Hot Guys
Tom @ Paris


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Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Sept 29

Happy anniversarry Jay, whereever you are.

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Welcome To Our Story


Jay and Kay

[Kay's note: The date of this post is brought forward in order to keep this post on top]

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Sunday, July 06, 2008

Lie To Me

Lie, while you’re even early
Deny, that you’re in any hurry
Cry, and tell me not to worry
‘Cause what I don’t know, is never gonna hurt me

Breathe, now baby don’t feel guilty
Deceive me, then just walk away
Leave me, the truth will only kill me
It’s gotta be, it’s gotta be this way

One more bad excuse
Before you turn me lose
Give me something to remember you by
Couldn’t you offer me
A little dishonesty
Promise me you’ll try
You’ll lie to me

Go, your plane is not gonna stay
Slow, so I can take it in
And so you say you’ll see me later
When you know you won’t see me again

Please before you let go of me
Take me one more time
Appease me, tell me that you love me
That you haven’t gone and change your mind

One more bad excuse
Before you turn me lose
Give me something to remember you by
Couldn’t you offer me
A little dishonesty
Promise me you’ll try
You’ll lie to me

Lie, while you’re even early
Deny, that you’re in any hurry
Cry, and tell me not to worry
‘Cause what I don’t know, is never gonna hurt me

One more bad excuse
Before you turn me lose
Give me something to remember you by
Couldn’t you offer me
A little dishonesty
Promise me you’ll try
You’ll lie to me

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Mew, On Loneliness

"I'm frighteningly lonely. It’s not easy at all, because the longer my grandma is gone, the more I miss her.

So I have one question.

If we can love someone so much how will we be able to handle it the one day when we are separated? And, if being separated is a part of life, and you know about separation well, is it possible that we can love someone and never be afraid of losing them?

At the same time I was also wondering is it possible that, we can live our entire life without loving anyone at all? That’s my loneliness.

I have lived with it now for 5 years, I know just how bad loneliness feels. I fear it wil continue to get worse.”

Will You Hold My Hands If I Hold It Up For You

If I told you that this song was meant for you, would you believe me?
It may not sound as beautiful as other songs
You may not know that love songs couldn’t be written out
If we didn’t have the feelings of love
But for you sweetheart, it all came out easily

You may heard thousands of love ballads
Some may touch your heart,
Though they mean nothing more
But you’ll know when you listen to this song
It was meant just for you
You would know by heart what I meant
And we would be there for each other

Let the song play while we are walking together on the path,
All I hear is just the voice of you and me
We'll be together for so long
As mentioned in the poetry
That where there is love, there is always hope
Your love has lightened up my heart
You are my destiny

Love holds up many truths to look for
And I have wasted my lifetime searching for them
But not so long ago, I realized when I am close to you
If my life is a rhythm
You're the beautiful lyrics to this song that has touched my heart

Wednesday, June 11, 2008


Dilemma aside, ever wondered that turning images into black and white, plus adjusting its contrast, could make photos look so good?

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

To Bare Or Not To Bare

What would you do if you're being approached and offered to model for an ad? Do you contemplate on the near nudity part or just go ahead with the big paycheck agreed on?

Is there a moral dilemma here?

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

After So Long

Finally his apartment is ready and I offered help to help him move into his new abode. Along with his brother we traveled about 5 times to and fro from his old room to the new place just to transfer all his stuff. (He has more pairs of shoes than my mum and sis both added up!) It was pleasant spending the afternoon with him, more so when his brother left in the evening, leaving just us two trying to figure out how to assemble some pieces of furniture we bought earlier. There were teases here and there as we talked and joked but at times there are moments which were very silent. I wished I could just pour my heart out but I held back. I wished I could hug him but I feared that he wouldn't want to hug back. I could also sense that he was checking me out head to toe when I wasn't looking, probably as much as I realised he is way hotter now. Ah, the sexual tension. We cleaned and sorted the place in the evening until I got a call which left me no choice but to leave. I told him I needed to go and he instantly offered to walk me out to my car but my stupid brain decided to think otherwise and told my mouth to utter words that rejected his offer.

'It's okay. I can go down myself. See you again.'

And that was it. I wanted to give him a hug but before I had the guts to do so, the elevator's door opened, I walked into it, saw him turn his back and walked away as the elevator's door closes.


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