I have always wanted to start a site. I wanted to talk about my life but I contemplated. Then I met Jay. Then I wanted to start a site for us. But I procrastinated. More than two years later, this is what I have now, a humble beginning. Just like any couples, we have been through many good and hard times together and this is one reason what this site is for: to put down our story in writing. So that this blog will witness our existence and hopefully we can flip through the archives one day and laugh at the silly things we did and be touched by Jay's heroic deed. Hi, I am Kay, we are boyfriends and this is the our story.
I'm Kay
Male. Smart and sentimental. 26yo. Enjoys movies (and porn) and reality shows. Sleeper. Uptight. Likes Robbie Williams. Has been to Singapore. Ogles at men. Just wants to be happy. Prefers to wear boxers. Selfless.
I'm Jay
Male. Sexy and studly. 29yo. Loves sushi and everything meat. Swimmer. Forgetful. Likes House music. Travels world over. Ogles at Kay. Want to be rich but not necessary famous. Likes not to wear underwear. Selfish.
A few of us in the office celebrated the birthday of a colleague at his apartment last week. It was an impromptu decision, only knowing that his birthday the day before, so on that day we decided to celebrate and he invited us over to his apartment for dinner. Now, there is nothing unusual about the birthday but him being a gay, made the evening rather interesting.
He, whom I shall call, Alec, is known for his flamboyance in the way he talks and acts. He is fashion conscious and into designer items. He goes to gym. He dresses smartly. All these come to a conclusion about his sexuality... well my gaydar is pretty strong, remember? So when we arrive that evening, we were greeted by a caucasion. My guess is that he was Alec's partner. The more we talked I realised they have been living together for a few years.
Then it suddenly dawned on me...when would Jay and I be able to stay and lead a life together? Would I come to achieve what I see in Alec and his partner? I don't know what my other co-workers think of him. I think they know and come to realise about his coming out and they took it with ease and without prejudice. I was relief and happy for him too, at least I feel that he wants us to know about it without having to tell directly to us 'I'm a homosexual'.
That was last week. Yesterday we bade farewell to another colleague who would be leaving today. As we sat through dinner and talked we spoke about changing job. There were some questions raised but one thing common in the two conversations I had was that they agree that I should move on as well. I was assured that it is about time to seek new job after staying in the company for about 3 years. I really think I should consider this seriously. Jay thinks so. Alec thinks so too, as well as the colleague who is leaving. After speaking to these people I see the revelation.