I have always wanted to start a site. I wanted to talk about my life but I contemplated. Then I met Jay. Then I wanted to start a site for us. But I procrastinated. More than two years later, this is what I have now, a humble beginning. Just like any couples, we have been through many good and hard times together and this is one reason what this site is for: to put down our story in writing. So that this blog will witness our existence and hopefully we can flip through the archives one day and laugh at the silly things we did and be touched by Jay's heroic deed. Hi, I am Kay, we are boyfriends and this is the our story.
I'm Kay
Male. Smart and sentimental. 26yo. Enjoys movies (and porn) and reality shows. Sleeper. Uptight. Likes Robbie Williams. Has been to Singapore. Ogles at men. Just wants to be happy. Prefers to wear boxers. Selfless.
I'm Jay
Male. Sexy and studly. 29yo. Loves sushi and everything meat. Swimmer. Forgetful. Likes House music. Travels world over. Ogles at Kay. Want to be rich but not necessary famous. Likes not to wear underwear. Selfish.
In response to another blogger's entry on boxers and briefs, as a young guy with a fetish for underwear myself, I find it gratifying to look at hot and sexy men in their underwear irregardless of boxers or briefs. In fact, if you were to ask me to go shopping for clothes, the first section in the men's department I'd visit is the underwear's section. I have already been there so often that I think I know the many types of underwear on the shelves, though I have to admit that the choices are still quite limited compared to what we can see on the internet. Okay, before I go on blabbing about my underwear fetish, let's look at the differences between boxers and briefs.
Boxers
Pros: Crotch temperature stays lower, encouraging higher sperm count. The front fly is much easier to use. Can camouflage a man's physique. Comes in a wide array of colors and patterns.
Cons: When wearer becomes excited, it shows. Provides almost no support. Bunches up when worn inside pants. This happens during one of my yoga classes. Thick waistband can cause irritation. Their looseness can cause them to ride up above the waist. The legs are open along the bottom.
Briefs
Pros: Prevents 'dangling' and provides support. Looks best on a guy in great shape like Jay. Stays where you put them - no ride up. Legs are elastic.
Cons: Can be the cause of reduced sperm count. Overlapping fly is impossible to use. When the elastic band deteriorates, the whole brief looks unkempt. Elastic legs tend to hold the sweat stench of the groin. (This is a pro for me!)
So there you have it some general comparisons between the baggy boxers and briefs. Then comes the hybrid boxers-brief which is also popular. It features the freedom of a boxer and support of a brief.
Jay and I have all three types of underwears*. Many of our underwears are colour coordinated. Jay personally like briefs more than boxers as he prefers support. He sleeps at night without clothes on but he must keep an underwear on. On the other hand I like being stark naked when in bed with him so even when he's asleep I'll pull it off from him and he willingly lets it go. Being a low hanger myself I like boxers more but I think my preference has since started to change recently after looking a mirror of myself and found out that I looked pretty good in Jay's whitey-tighties. Damn, Jay looks absofuckinglutely hot in white briefs (and I think I might follow suit). I have always enjoyed seeing him undressing, taking off shirt first then his pants, revealing a sexy upper body and a bulging package safely tucked in a white skivvy.
In the end, I don't think the choice of your underwear reflects your personality, be it serious and conservative or playful and outgoing. I think what men want is the comfort and sexy feel.
*I also own a piece of silly thong that was given as a prank gift. Think a moustached man with nerdy glasses and a long snout.
Comments:
i've been wearing briefs all my life. i like them, and i like seeing guys in them, too. boxer-briefs are cool. i don't like boxers, though.