I have always wanted to start a site. I wanted to talk about my life but I contemplated. Then I met Jay. Then I wanted to start a site for us. But I procrastinated. More than two years later, this is what I have now, a humble beginning. Just like any couples, we have been through many good and hard times together and this is one reason what this site is for: to put down our story in writing. So that this blog will witness our existence and hopefully we can flip through the archives one day and laugh at the silly things we did and be touched by Jay's heroic deed. Hi, I am Kay, we are boyfriends and this is the our story.
I'm Kay
Male. Smart and sentimental. 26yo. Enjoys movies (and porn) and reality shows. Sleeper. Uptight. Likes Robbie Williams. Has been to Singapore. Ogles at men. Just wants to be happy. Prefers to wear boxers. Selfless.
I'm Jay
Male. Sexy and studly. 29yo. Loves sushi and everything meat. Swimmer. Forgetful. Likes House music. Travels world over. Ogles at Kay. Want to be rich but not necessary famous. Likes not to wear underwear. Selfish.
All my life I've been looking up to people. Role models. People I'd like to emulate. This jock in high school, handsome and popular. This lean and toned scoutmaster with rippling abs who's good with cooking and anything physical. My class monitor who's quite a hunk and smart. They were achievers in their fields. I was known as the underdog in many situations and expected to triumph but didn't quite exactly.
Just recently one of my best friend asked me for advice. You see, he knew this girl for some time and now he thinks he's in love with her so he seeked advice from me. Suddenly I'm a relationship guru. When he asked me while we were in the car I was shocked to get it from him. When us guys hang out, we talk about all sorts but never about handling a relationship. We talked till 3am that night. It was a man to man talk. Never before I had such experience with anyone other than Jay. Heck, he was talking from his heart and I even felt like coming out to him. I wished him luck in his bid to get his girl and I went to bed feeling good, not because I gave him guaranteed-to-work solutions but rather the thought that he actually came to me for advice, when for all I know, he's been a very independant guy who can work things out for himself.
On another occasion another friend called me up and asked for guidance in preparation for a camping trip. I might not be a pro backpacker, but I've been to many camping trips and he knows he could use some help from my experience. We talked about getting prepared for the trip including how to pack a bag and what to expect in the wilderness. Not to feel proud but I'm like a consultant suddenly. People are seeking advice from me and I liked it. I pretty much enjoyed the moment when they seek advice and guidance from me. It gives the extra boost to my confidence which I lacked of since my adolescence years. I was a late bloomer (when the guys my age were growing facial hair and I was still as smooth as a baby). Okay, let's not delve into that.
Right now, Jay is all I look up to. I'm learning so much from him. His determination and diligence in doing things. His never give up attitude. His ways of seeing the positive side when things don't turn out the way it should be. His body and the way he takes good care of it.
Comments:
Hell, how didja get those bodies! I think I'd have to starve for months!
Paul
# posted by savante : 11:16 PM, September 25, 2005
Paul - I think we all know that in order to get them, you need:
1. Sheer determination 2. Protein shakes 3. Good ol' hip-thrusting workout for the abdominals during fcuks.
I'm still on my way there.
# posted by jayandkay : 11:46 PM, September 25, 2005