I have always wanted to start a site. I wanted to talk about my life but I contemplated. Then I met Jay. Then I wanted to start a site for us. But I procrastinated. More than two years later, this is what I have now, a humble beginning. Just like any couples, we have been through many good and hard times together and this is one reason what this site is for: to put down our story in writing. So that this blog will witness our existence and hopefully we can flip through the archives one day and laugh at the silly things we did and be touched by Jay's heroic deed. Hi, I am Kay, we are boyfriends and this is the our story.
I'm Kay
Male. Smart and sentimental. 26yo. Enjoys movies (and porn) and reality shows. Sleeper. Uptight. Likes Robbie Williams. Has been to Singapore. Ogles at men. Just wants to be happy. Prefers to wear boxers. Selfless.
I'm Jay
Male. Sexy and studly. 29yo. Loves sushi and everything meat. Swimmer. Forgetful. Likes House music. Travels world over. Ogles at Kay. Want to be rich but not necessary famous. Likes not to wear underwear. Selfish.
When I first knew Jay he owned a only motorcycle and rented a room . We would meet at the train station, he would park his bike there, then we take the same train to work though we stop at different stations. In the evening right after work he would wait for me and take us back to his place. Everywhere we go, even if it's only nearby he would take his bike. I would always sit behind him and often peek into the right side mirror to see and smile at him. At nights, I would put my hands around him and hug him tight, if none is watching, I'd lean my head against his back, relax and let the wind blow by. Then his bike got stolen one day and we had to resort to taking public transportation.
Not long after the incident Jay decided to get a new car. Without long contemplation he bought one. There was some financial difficulties initially but we managed to overcome it later. Having a car is so much better than a motorcycle. It's more risky travelling with the latter. Furthermore we are now able to go places farther and travel hundreds of kilometers if we want to. Despite the change in the mode of transportation, I still miss the days we travelled with the bike- that was old but reliable.
Now Jay is looking at a new house. He plans to get one and is checking out the properties in the city. Our plan is when he gets the key we would move in together. I already have in mind the colours I want to paint for the rooms, how the furniture should be arranged and types of lamps to put. Geez, I'm already counting the chickens before they hatch. Yes it sounds perfect. But for me to move in with Jay, that is another story. As I'm now staying with my folks, it is hard for me to find a reason to move out since I'm working nearby. Even if I can find a reason good enough, how am I to suppose to justify about moving in with him? Think. Think. Think.
Last resort: We move to another city far away, get new jobs and find a place to stay together? I'm going to need lots of guts for this.
We've known for 3 years but it seems like I've been watching him grow and progress for a long time. Much has changed and I believe changes will continue to take place and I'll continue to stand by him no matter what.
Comments:
Thats very unconditional! I've always wondered what it would be like to live with my lover. Just the two of us. Tho it would be great to have him around, sometimes I do worry that the lack of space may drive us crazy. You have a good week ahead!
Living together is another whole different story... some good some bad... u wont know til u try it out. Thanks for signing my guestbook. I wish ya both all the best. take care n heppy always.
michael's right...u won't know till you try it out...we tried and succeeded!well sometimes we have huge fights and stay in our own apartments , apart...but this is something you have to accept the risk of it.you know as an interior designer i can give you some hints , maybe more...hope you guys can make it ;)
# posted by Anonymous : 11:55 PM, October 17, 2005
aj - Now that you mentioned it, I thought most of the couples out there are living together. I'm wrong. At least there are some like us.
michael - I can't wait for us to stay together. If I have a wish...
istanbulcasual - I want to sleep next to him. Wake up in the morning. Make breakfast. Shower together. Leave for work. Back from work. Cook dinner together. TV. Sex on the sofa. Then fall asleep.
# posted by jayandkay : 12:32 AM, October 18, 2005
Start saving $$.. now days the renovation fee is sky high.. :(