I have always wanted to start a site. I wanted to talk about my life but I contemplated. Then I met Jay. Then I wanted to start a site for us. But I procrastinated. More than two years later, this is what I have now, a humble beginning. Just like any couples, we have been through many good and hard times together and this is one reason what this site is for: to put down our story in writing. So that this blog will witness our existence and hopefully we can flip through the archives one day and laugh at the silly things we did and be touched by Jay's heroic deed. Hi, I am Kay, we are boyfriends and this is the our story.
I'm Kay
Male. Smart and sentimental. 26yo. Enjoys movies (and porn) and reality shows. Sleeper. Uptight. Likes Robbie Williams. Has been to Singapore. Ogles at men. Just wants to be happy. Prefers to wear boxers. Selfless.
I'm Jay
Male. Sexy and studly. 29yo. Loves sushi and everything meat. Swimmer. Forgetful. Likes House music. Travels world over. Ogles at Kay. Want to be rich but not necessary famous. Likes not to wear underwear. Selfish.
I don't think I can sleep well tonight and I don't think Jay and his big ego will call me to apologise. Or to say thank you.
I was eager to spend time with him today as I took the day off but he called in the morning to tell me that he lost his wallet. Apparently he left his wallet, watch and car keys on the ironing board, next to the window of his room, and a burglar was lucky last night when he tried to rummage through the windows grill with his hands and all the items were within his reach. Jay was quick enough to realize the sound and woke up on time to scare the burglar. Being the careless person he is, he thought nothing was stolen and went back to sleep.
Only this monring when we were supposed to meet and have a good day, he called to say he couldnt't find his wallet. Along with his ID, credit cards, ATM cards plus a few hundred bucks. I was immediately dissapointed and frustrated because I have told him many, many times not to leave stuff near the window. Jay is one cool and easy guy but too laidback. Everytime he gets back to his room, first thing he does is to remove all the items from his pockets and accessories that he wear and put them onto any surface he sees or reaches first- the floor, the book shelf, his desk, on top the storage box, on the chair or the ironing board. Then he strips down before going into the shower. Many a times I have reminded him to be organized and keep things at a proper place and not everywhere but like I said, he's just too laidback. I don't want to be his mom nagging him. I want to be his ultimate boyfriend... one who loves him so much that it hurts even more to see him hurt... but I'm tired of seeing him misplacing, forgetting and losing things so often that the number beats our sex frequency.
Instead of having a fun-filled day, we rushed to get his new ID, driver's license replaced and cancelled his credit cards. I was gloomy for most of the day eventhough I stood by him and stayed supportive. I wished he could promise me not to be so absentminded anymore.
Comments:
Heya, try to feel better. Sometimes things like this happen, and it'll take a lot of patience and support from a loved one to make real changes.
I have bad habits too, and as much as I want to get rid of them, it takes time to change.
aie aie aie, beleive me just be happy the burgler could have take care of your boyfriend another way...... and you still can take a day together from far away ia a cute stroy full of love and excpetations kisses for www.beautiful.blogs.com
Erm, there has been a whole lots of mumbo jumbo scientific research & songs that suggest that we choose our partners based on their qualities that will balance our life out the most. Ying Yang, Karma, etc
i.e if you are the nagger, well he is going to be the airhead.
in my relationship, I'm the cautious in trusting people & he is believes almost anyone, but we are both anally retentive at different things.
ken - We're trying to change for each other. Then again some traits are best left untouched. I like him to be naughty. :)
yann and rob paris - It's just that it is difficult to find a day where we both are free and when the day comes, something unexpected pops up to spoil it. :(
aj - He's changed alot for me. I'm grateful for that. I just don't want him to be so absentminded that he forgets or misplaces me one day. :o
# posted by jayandkay : 12:17 AM, October 12, 2005