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About Us
I have always wanted to start a site. I wanted to talk about my life but I contemplated. Then I met Jay. Then I wanted to start a site for us. But I procrastinated. More than two years later, this is what I have now, a humble beginning. Just like any couples, we have been through many good and hard times together and this is one reason what this site is for: to put down our story in writing. So that this blog will witness our existence and hopefully we can flip through the archives one day and laugh at the silly things we did and be touched by Jay's heroic deed. Hi, I am Kay, we are boyfriends and this is the our story.
I'm Kay  Male. Smart and sentimental. 26yo. Enjoys movies (and porn) and reality shows. Sleeper. Uptight. Likes Robbie Williams. Has been to Singapore. Ogles at men. Just wants to be happy. Prefers to wear boxers. Selfless.
I'm Jay  Male. Sexy and studly. 29yo. Loves sushi and everything meat. Swimmer. Forgetful. Likes House music. Travels world over. Ogles at Kay. Want to be rich but not necessary famous. Likes not to wear underwear. Selfish.
jayandkay [at] gmail [dot] com
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Monday, November 14, 2005
Man Services After a while, I realise that I blog most often when I'm free, when Jay isn't around. With Jay back home, I hardly find time to check our blog, let alone log in and create a post. Like in those weeks which he's back, my time was basically occupied with everything Jay. Does that mean that should we live together one day and he no longer needs to travel for work, this blog will come a halt? I need to learn to time manage. Jay's birthday is coming soon, in less than 15 days. I have a few things in mind to do to surprise him. I wanted to draw a potrait of him. I did, in fact, but I think a full body drawing would be much better...to appreciate his male beauty. I don't have any pics of him for that matter so I think I'll have to rely on what's fresh in my mind. While anticipating his return to celebrate his birthday, I have listed the 9 things I'd love to do and I plan to execute them when he returns. The list, in no particular order:  #1 Hand him a hot towel While he's in the shower or taking a bath, I'll throw his towel in the dryer for a few minutes. When he gets out or better, I go into the shower when he's done and present him with the toasty towel. It's sweet and thoughtful.  #2 Show his head a little TLC His face and hair need to be pampered. I'll prepare a hairwash for him and follow it up with a scalp massage. Then, if it feels right, I'll kiss him. It might be best to make that last part spontaneous; one deep kiss can lead to many things.  # 3 Give him a massage I'll offer to give him a massage. Using aromatherapy oils, I'll focus on his neck and back, the areas that tend to tense up under stress and cause aches and pains. Then followed by the butt, legs and his family jewels. Mood is created by dimming the lights and lighting candles. This a more relaxing and romantic environment. Best if followed after #2.  # 4 Bring him breakfast in bed A classic gesture, breakfast in bed is the proverbial "oldie but goodie." I"ll get up early on a Saturday or Sunday morning and prepare breakfast just the way he likes it, with toast, fresh fruit, milk. Then surprise him by serving it to him in bed. Another great way for him to start the day and for me to score later, or who knows on the spot later!  # 5 Write him romantic notes The love letter or love note is an amazing thing; only little effort is required to write him one, and yet I can express so much. I'll write a few creative, unique love notes and leave them in unexpected places around his room. For example, in the morning, [line has been removed for secrecy].  # 6 Order in Order in for dinner and have it waiting for him when he gets home. I'll again create a romantic setting by recreating a restaurant feel on the dining room table, complete with plates, silverware and cloth napkins. For an extra romantic touch, I'll add candles and a small vase with some flowers. I'll surprise him with my impeccable taste. The little details matter most.  # 7 Pack him lunch for work I'll make a lunch for him to take to work. It's an opportunity to be both thoughtful and romantic, since I can also slip in a love note or a flower. Furthermore, if I'm busy, I can buy an individual slice of cake or pie from the bakery, or some other dessert he likes.  # 8 Make him feel sexy with some sexy undies Undies is win-win...my man feels sexy and attractive wearing it, and the benefits for me go without saying. ;) I'll buy him some nice, good and comfy undies and lay it out on the bed for him to find. The guideline is to think about what he likes, what he'll feel good in, then combine that with my own tastes.  # 9 Draw him a bath The bathtub is one of the most romantic household locales. I'll draw him a hot bath and add bath beads and/or bubble bath. If all goes well, he'll invite me to join him. Fun in the water, how fucking hot is that? Optional: Performed after #1 # 10 Is there a suggestion for a #10? Let it be something about sex.
Comments:
These sound great...just don't do them all on one day or he will explode from love!
When you guys do live together and he is travelling less, you will find time to blog. In fact, you will need it. Right now, when he is around, you make up for all the time you don't get to spend together. When you are together all the time, your priorities will shift and you will need to do some things on your own (like blogging) so you don't lose your own identity, the identity that he loves so much. # posted by
 : 2:32 AM, November 14, 2005
JAY is too lucky! Hmph! Luckily my Ruggy is even luckier!(he has me) :P
I would give you a most tantalizing no. 10 but you would have to agree to post more self pictures.... Yes I'm a Perv.
will - Oh yeah, add this too: I wanna kiss him all over his body when he's about to sleep. He needs all the love from me.
What you say is right. Thanks. (suddenly I feel that you know me so well) chris - I'm really looking forward to his return. I wasn't very much into cooking but after Jay taught me how, wow, cooking is fun. ethan - So when's your birthday? ;) leo - Kay is luckier! aj - I bet Ruggy is! And I demand a no.10!
Wow! If straight men were as romantic as you are, I might not have turned to celibacy!!! And you want a suggestion for number 10??? Well, the best way you can finish that day of pampering is just to say "I love you".
Sonia
sonia - Hey thanks for visiting. Like they always say, all the good men are either taken or are gay. :)
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