I have always wanted to start a site. I wanted to talk about my life but I contemplated. Then I met Jay. Then I wanted to start a site for us. But I procrastinated. More than two years later, this is what I have now, a humble beginning. Just like any couples, we have been through many good and hard times together and this is one reason what this site is for: to put down our story in writing. So that this blog will witness our existence and hopefully we can flip through the archives one day and laugh at the silly things we did and be touched by Jay's heroic deed. Hi, I am Kay, we are boyfriends and this is the our story.
I'm Kay
Male. Smart and sentimental. 26yo. Enjoys movies (and porn) and reality shows. Sleeper. Uptight. Likes Robbie Williams. Has been to Singapore. Ogles at men. Just wants to be happy. Prefers to wear boxers. Selfless.
I'm Jay
Male. Sexy and studly. 29yo. Loves sushi and everything meat. Swimmer. Forgetful. Likes House music. Travels world over. Ogles at Kay. Want to be rich but not necessary famous. Likes not to wear underwear. Selfish.
Got this from the local newspaper and decided to tweak it for some fun.
So, is the boy you're dating the right one for you? Below are 15 questions to help you find out if your boy treats you well and if you're like what L'Oreal says: Because you're worth it.
1. How does he make you feel when you're around him? a) Like I'm important but he doesn't like to show affection. b) Like he can care less that I'm right here with him. He's not even interested in sex. c) Like I'm just the only one in the world and even my booger fascinates him.
2. How are the communications skills between the two of you? a) We communicate better on the phone and over the internet chat but when it comes to face-to-face I don't quite feel it. b) He barely communicates, even the mute and deaf understand me better. c) We talk everyday and he understand me like how I understand what he likes during sex.
3. If you were to make him mad, how would he react? a) He would just go into his own little world and give me the silent treatment. b) He would yell at me at the top of his lungs. c) He would try to talk to me about why he's mad.
4. Is he someone who you could be yourself with? a) Always. No doubt. b) No, I can't. (Okay, maybe sometimes.) c) Yes, I can. I can even dress as a drag queen, if I ever like dressing like one and he still likes me.
5. Does he get along with your parents and friends? a) They really haven't met him; he doesn't want to meet them. b) No, they don't get along. c) My friends have met him. My parents, no. I'm not that ready yet.
6. What do the both of you do when you are alone? a) We are rarely alone in the room. He doesn't want me to sleep over. b) We do our own stuff. I masturbate, he watches. Then he falls asleep. c) We cuddle up while talking to each other. Sometimes followed by sex.
7. How does he treat you in public when you two are alone? a) Like I'm just one of the guys. Nothing special. b) Like...dirt? c) We walk side by side, sometimes with his arm over my shoulder.
8. When his gay friends are around, he treats you like... a) There's no reason for me to be around his friends. He doesn't want them to know me, for reasons I don't know. b) I'm a stranger and sometimes he makes fun of me and he apologizes after that. c) I'm still important and he wants my friends to treat me like I'm his boyfriend.
9. Does he flirt around with other guys? a) Not sure, but I know that his eyes wander sometimes. When he spots someone with a great body or a handsome guy, he tells me about it. b) No, he doesn't. But as soon as I'm away, he asks another guy out. c) No, he doesn't. Even if it is his job to be friendly with the public.
10. If you were to tell him that you didn't like something he did, he would... a) Say okay and change the conversation topic. Apology is only an option. b) Say I'm picking on him for no reason and tell that he doesn't like to be nagged. c) Listen attentively and promise not to repeat again.
11. When you guys go out who gets the bill? a) Sometime he gets it, sometime he makes me get it. b) He gets it but complains after that. c) We split the bill but he pays for it most of the time.
12. When you decide on something is it a joint effort? a) He asks for my opinion but he still wants it his way. b) He calls the shots all the time. c) Yes, all the time.
13.Does he take the trouble to do nice things for you? a) He used to. b) Nice things are troublesome for him because he says he isn't crafty. c) He calls to wake me up in the morning on the day of my important presentation. He helps to tidy up my room when I'm away for work for a week. He writes email to me to say 'I love you'.
14. Does he include you in all his plans? a) Last minute, maybe. b) Plans? c) Of course. All the time. In advanced.
15. How often do you both have romantic holidays? a) Not since he became busy with his career and tight schedule. b) Cruise? We don't even dine at 'The Ship' for our anniversary. Oh yeah, he forgot. c) Often enough. He even dubbed our usual weekend stay over as 'Nights of the Candlelights'
If your answers are mostly: (a)s ...this is not easy. Please see a counselor. (b)s consider ditching him. He doesn't seem to care or have any interest in you. (c)s he's The One. Even better than Neo.