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I have always wanted to start a site. I wanted to talk about my life but I contemplated. Then I met Jay. Then I wanted to start a site for us. But I procrastinated. More than two years later, this is what I have now, a humble beginning. Just like any couples, we have been through many good and hard times together and this is one reason what this site is for: to put down our story in writing. So that this blog will witness our existence and hopefully we can flip through the archives one day and laugh at the silly things we did and be touched by Jay's heroic deed. Hi, I am Kay, we are boyfriends and this is the our story.
I'm Kay  Male. Smart and sentimental. 26yo. Enjoys movies (and porn) and reality shows. Sleeper. Uptight. Likes Robbie Williams. Has been to Singapore. Ogles at men. Just wants to be happy. Prefers to wear boxers. Selfless.
I'm Jay  Male. Sexy and studly. 29yo. Loves sushi and everything meat. Swimmer. Forgetful. Likes House music. Travels world over. Ogles at Kay. Want to be rich but not necessary famous. Likes not to wear underwear. Selfish.
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Sunday, April 06, 2008
How Not to Cheat On One's Partner  When it comes to resisting sexual temptation and remaining faithful to your partner, The Beatles got it right: All you need is love. Numerous studies have shown that humans are not especially self-restrained when it comes to gratification. We prefer to indulge in pleasure when opportunity arises. But when it comes to love and lust, this otherwise reliable human trait – 'get it while you can' – leads to a paradox: Why do people in stable relationships so often pass up the chance for a little sexual gratification on the side, even if they can get away with it? To find out, psychologists led by Gian Gonzaga at the University of California in Los Angeles set up a test using 60 heterosexual undergraduates. These test subjects had been in relationships for at least three years, and were instructed to ogle a photograph of a hot babe or hunk of the opposite sex that they found especially attractive, taken from a popular dating site. After writing a short essay on what they found alluring about the person in the picture, Gonzaga then divided his guinea pigs into three groups. The first was asked to write about the moment when they had felt the strongest feeling of love for their current partner, while the second group had to recall their most memorable and intense sexual encounter. The third group had the freedom to write about whatever came to mind. All the students were instructed, while writing, not to think about the good-looking guy or girl in the photo. But every time the tempter did pop into their minds while scribbling, the students had to tick a box. The group that focused on love, rather than lust, strayed in thoughts three times less than the group asked to describe the most memorable sexual encounter with their long-term partner. Those given free rein with a pen apparently couldn't keep their minds off the sexy photos, and ticked the box six times more than the "love" group. Feeling love for your romantic partner appears to make everybody else less attractive. Labels: Cool Stuff
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I think it's true though. Many couples got separated because of the same reason as well. # posted by
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